Parent Coach
You Were Told Therapy Would Be The Turning Point…
It’s been months of therapy, but months later, everything still feels like a power struggle.
You’re taking away the very things your child needs as “consequences,” just to make it through the day.
You’re doing everything you can. But you’re second-guessing every decision.
Parenting feels like one long punishment, for both of you, and you’re starting to wonder if you are the problem.
You hear other moms raving about their kids and wonder, why can’t that be me?
You find yourself second-guessing every consequence, every reaction, every decision.
You’re trying so hard, but nothing is working, and you feel like you’re the only one still stuck.
When you parent with intention:
✓ Your home feels grounded, connected, & just easier to be in.
✓ You know how to stay steady through the hard moments.
✓ Stay steady through the meltdowns, the backtalk, the chaos.
✓ Your child feels safe, understood, and more willing to listen.
✓ You stop second-guessing yourself & start parenting with clarity & calm.
✓ And most importantly, when connection comes first, cooperation follows.
You’ve taken the classes everyone is talking about…read the blogs…asked for advice yet you still find yourself yelling, bribing, ignoring and googling.
What You Get with 1:1 Kavana Parent Coaching
This isn’t a course. It’s not a script. It’s hands-on, personalized support—designed to help you lead your family with more calm, confidence, and clarity.
Here’s what’s included:
✓ Four powerful 1-hour Zoom sessions each month
✓ Ongoing access to me between sessions—text, email, WhatsApp
✓ In-the-moment guidance when things come up unexpectedly (because they always do)
✓ A clear, step-by-step plan so you’re not scrambling or second-guessing
✓ Simple, practical tools that actually work—and stay with you for the future
Kavana Group Coaching
There’s something powerful about being in a room—virtual or not—with parents who are walking a similar path. You don’t have to explain the chaos. You don’t have to pretend it’s fine. You’re just understood.
Kavana Group Coaching connects you with a small group of parents facing similar challenges—whether that’s a specific age and stage or a shared struggle like anxiety, sibling conflict, or school resistance. Together, we move from survival mode to feeling more confident and in control.
Here’s what’s included:
✓ Four 1-hour Zoom sessions per month
✓ Ongoing group chat support between sessions
✓ Encouragement, wisdom, and relief that only comes from people who truly get it
✓ Weekly structure to keep you grounded and moving forward
✓ The same powerful tools as 1:1 coaching—shared in a space that lifts you up
You’ll grow, feel seen, and learn practical strategies—together.
Hire Me to Speak or Lead a Workshop
Bring me in to speak at your school, organization, or community event and give parents more than inspiration—give them real, usable tools they can bring home that night.
Here’s what’s included:
✓ Clear, practical tools that work in real-life parenting moments
✓ Stories and strategies parents recognize themselves in
✓ Fully customizable workshops and talks designed around your group’s needs
Most parenting programs offer a one-size-fits-all solution—and expect your family to fit into their mold. That’s not how I work.
I don’t teach just one method and expect it to fix everything.
Instead, I help you find the approach that truly fits your child, your home, and your unique challenges.
You won’t leave with generic advice. You’ll walk away with clear, practical tools tailored to your real-life situations—so you can finally take the guesswork out of parenting.
With 23 years as a pediatric occupational therapist and over 1,000 families supported, I know what really works. Now, I’m here to help you make it work for your family and really bring it home - to your home, not the one on the cover of a book.
Hi, I’m Nikki
For more than two decades, I worked as a pediatric occupational therapist—and I kept seeing the same pattern: kids came to therapy regularly, but progress was slow. Sometimes it took 6 to 12 months before families noticed real change.
Why? Because kids don’t live in a bubble. They might do great work in therapy, but if that progress isn’t supported at home, it doesn’t fully stick. And often, it’s not just about “fixing” the child—it’s about learning how to parent that child.
I’m not here to downplay therapy—it absolutely has its place. But for parents who’ve been trying everything and still don’t see the change they want, there’s another way.
Real change happens when you, the parent, learn the tools to build the home your child needs not just to live—but to truly flourish.
That’s why for the past two years, I’ve been working directly with parents like you—helping handle real-life challenges, rebuild connections, and make your house into home.
What parents are saying
Working with Nechama is an absolute blessing! Her insights provide a new and invigorating outlook, and her guidance is consistently accurate. Nechama displays patience, empathy, and a profound understanding of the challenges and struggles of the individuals she assists. Our family has experienced a transformative impact thanks to Nechama's invaluable advice. Her suggestions were incredibly helpful, and the changes we've embraced based on her recommendations have truly been a game changer!
T. R.
New York
My wife and I want to express our deepest gratitude to Nikki for her patience and understanding, and for guiding us on a path to help our children be the happy children they deserve to be. She provided new insight into parenting techniques and strategies, and even more importantly referred us to professionals and educational resources to address our needs. We live in Michigan and could not be happier with our experience. We highly recommend Nikki and are confident you will too!
Ryan
Michigan
Nechama is a gem! It is evident from the 1st moment you speak to her, how knowledgeable and passionate she is about raising children with positivity. Both her own and anyone she encounters. Offering advice in a way that is easy to hear, and easy to implement.
I wholeheartedly recommend her services. She has made a remarkable difference in my life, and I'm incredibly grateful for her support and expertise through the years. I am lucky enough to call her a friend as well!
Shifra
Cleveland, OH
Nechama was an invaluable resource to us when my son was having trouble hitting and biting. She listened well and her advice was spot on. She checked in frequently and made herself available over text and calls. I want to recommend her to any of my friends, having trouble with their kids. She is a wellspring of information, knowledge, and compassion.
B. C.
Maryland
How We Work Together
Step 1
Start With a Conversation
(Free introductory call)
We talk through what’s happening and what you’ve already tried. If I’m not the right fit, I’ll tell you — and help guide you toward appropriate next steps.
Step 2
Gain Clarity &
Set Direction
We identify what’s driving the challenges, gather meaningful baseline information, and define achievable goals within a realistic timeframe.
Step 3
Learn. Apply. Adapt.
Through ongoing sessions and support, you learn tools, apply them in real life, and adapt them as your child — and your family — grow and change.
Step 4
Confidence Going Forward
You won’t “graduate” because parenting gets easy — you’ll leave with clarity, tools, and the confidence to meet whatever comes next (because it always does).
FAQs
Can I afford this?
We offer flexible payment plans to make this accessible. And if you’re wondering whether now is the right time, ask yourself: where will your home be in six months if nothing changes? This work is an investment in changing patterns — not just getting through another hard phase. Sometimes the harder question isn’t the cost of starting — but the cost of staying the same.
Will this actually work for me?
Yes! You won’t be doing this alone. I’ll walk with you every step of the way—guiding, adjusting, and making sure the tools fit your real life. If something isn’t working, we pivot. This program is built to work for you.
How long are we working together?
In just 3 months, you’ll see a real shift in your home. The work is focused, supportive, and designed to create lasting change—not drag on for years.
Is Kavana Parenting for you?
This Is For You If...
✅ You have a child who’s recently been diagnosed, or you suspect something’s going on and don't know where to start.
✅ You’re dealing with THAT child in your family who takes up most of your time, energy, and patience.
✅ You’re parenting a neurodivergent or developmentally complex child and want clear, practical guidance and steady support to understand what’s going on and what to do next.
✅ You feel overwhelmed and unsure how to handle day-to-day challenges.
✅ You’ve tried parenting books, therapy, or other supports—but still don’t know what truly works for your family.
This Might Not Be For You If...
❌ You’re still in the process of healing from your own childhood trauma. Getting that support first can make a huge difference—in how you feel in the present and in the kind of security and connection you’re able to give your children moving forward.
❌ You’re just starting out and haven’t yet explored traditional therapy or other early interventions.
❌ You’re looking specifically for co-parenting or blended family guidance. While that’s not my focus, I can point you toward professionals who specialize in that area.
❌ You’re hoping for a quick fix without much effort. This work is meaningful and transformative—but it does take time, practice, and patience.
You don’t need more advice, another book, or listen to another podcast.
You need guidance that turns insight into action.